December 6, 2022

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Last Updated February 26, 2026

How to Pay for Senior Living

A guide to understanding average costs, your financial assets and devising a financial strategy for retirement

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If you’re considering senior living for yourself or a family member, you likely have questions – and we have answers.


Whether you’re asking how to pay for senior living or comparing options like VA benefits for independent living versus assisted living, this guide offers practical information and financial tips to help you make the most informed choice.*

1. Understanding Senior Living Options and Average Costs

The different types of senior living come with different price tags. Keep in mind that the average cost of senior living varies widely by region or location, size of apartment, care and/or services provided, amenities, etc.

Independent living: $2,000 to $6,000+/month

A good fit for older adults who want an active lifestyle without the responsibilities of home maintenance. Typically includes a private apartment, meals, housekeeping, transportation and social activities. Learn more about independent senior living.


Entrance fees: Some communities require a one-time buy-in fee, which can range from $870 to $7,500.

Assisted living: $3,500 to $8,000+/month

Similar to independent living but with personal care services added to support daily activities like bathing, dressing and medication reminders. Learn more about assisted senior living.


Total monthly cost may increase based on the required level of care.

Memory care: $5,500 to $14,000+/month

A form of assisted living that provides more intimate, specialized support for those living with dementia and other forms of memory impairment. Learn more about memory care options.


Total monthly cost may increase based on the required level of care.

Skilled nursing: $7,000 to $10,000+/month

Also called nursing homes, skilled nursing communities offer the highest level of care 24/7 from licensed medical professionals for residents with significant health needs, disabilities or chronic conditions.


Insurance and Medicaid: Costs may be offset by long-term care insurance or Medicaid for those who qualify.

Cost Calculator: What does senior living cost where you live?

Find out by locating a Holiday community near you. Once you land on a community page, select “Cost Calculator” under “Photo Gallery & More” near the top of the page and follow the prompts!

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2. Take Stock of Your Finances

An honest assessment of your financial situation is key. While it’s best to sit down with a financial professional and discuss all available resources – from savings accounts and investments to pensions, IRAs and even home equity to pay for retirement expenses – this list will get you started.


Resources commonly used to pay for senior living:

  • Cash savings and retirement accounts
  • Proceeds from selling assets (including real estate)
  • Home equity or sale of a house (selling a house to pay for senior living)
  • Income streams like Social Security or pensions
  • Eligibility for financial programs

3. Covering Your Costs Without Savings

Even if you’ve saved very little, financial consultants often have creative ideas for how to cover senior living costs without savings by maximizing assets you already have.

Selling a house to pay for senior living

This is one of the most common ways to finance retirement. The proceeds from selling a home often cover senior living move-in costs and can be put toward monthly payments.


Homeowners may also consider a reverse mortgage to pay for senior living. This lets an owner convert home equity to cash without selling their property.

Taking out a bridge loan

If your house hasn’t sold but you’ve already made plans to move, a bridge loan for senior living offers short-term financing that’s typically repaid once your house is sold.

Veterans benefits

If you or a loved one served in the military, look into VA benefits for independent living and assisted living, including Aid & Attendance and other veterans benefits for senior living costs.

Medicaid

Medicaid generally does not pay for independent senior living costs because they are considered personal expenses, not medical care.


However, Medicaid may pay for specific, medically necessary personal care services (e.g., in-home assistance) if you qualify for Home and Community-Based Services (HCBS) waivers.

Tax credits & deductions

Some tax breaks may be available, including tax deductions for senior care costs or credits for caregivers supporting an aging relative. Consult a tax professional to take full advantage of incentives to reduce your out-of-pocket expense.

Insurance & savings tools

Other tools and sources may include:

  • Long-term care insurance policies
  • Structured pension or retirement payouts
  • Life insurance cash-out options or accelerated benefits
  • Family support strategies

4. Talk With a Senior Living Expert

No matter which senior living option you’re considering, community managers navigate complex financial conversations every day.


Locate a community near you and request a personalized consultation. There’s no obligation and, chances are, you’ll walk away with a smile, knowing you’ve taken the first step toward a carefree – and affordable – retirement.



*This article is for educational purposes and not financial advice.

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